Sunday, July 22, 2007
Hey guys..Juz wanna share u guys sth..
Ok..i juz came back from avery fruitful and meaningful camp, Leadership Training Camp (LTC). It's a very different camp; it teaches me the skills of telling wad kind of person u are through ur actions and the dark secrets buried in ur hearts and minds..
I realized that all of us has many problems in ourselves..that's why some ppl are rude, backstabbers etc...i have learnt frm y facilitators to talk to these people and make them CRY as they let out their genuine reasons frm the heart...
I am expected to put in practice what i hav learnt in ths camp to help in my daily lives and the people around me..this includes u guys..I will start now..I will be very OPEN in this post...i learnt that holding back what i really what to express is really bad..therefore i will juz provide one example..
I used to really dislike Arifah for her really poor attitude..and i am very sure all of u dislike her too..But have u guys ever thought wad really happened to her that made her this way? No she is not pampared whatsoever..she is hiding sth inside her i am 100% sure of that..do not be surprised..the surface might be ugly, but the thing buried inside be the purest of all..and everyone has dat including her..
I learnt that instead of juz saying her out the facts to her face..i must talk to her in another way...i muz reveal that pure gem hidden in her heart...sth is covering it and i am very sure it has got to do with family problems...if i have time,i will want to apply wad i learn to help her and all of u..
Another thing i would like to say is that i am SORRY to all juniors out there..this goes on behalf of the pioneers also..once again i will be very OPEN..i have learnt that by juz talking and intructing u to do stuff won't work..I always complain that u guys hve no initiative, very slow, etc..and when u guys didnt improve, i scold u more and more..REPEATING the same things over and over again...I learnt this can actually worsen the situation..once again, SORRY aites..
There's a better way to handle this problem..Well, apparently these problems can't be solved now cause i am very busy...
If u guyz wan bright future ahead as dancers of North Vista, then i suggest u conduct a one/two-day camp etc for us to settle this once and for all...
Hmm..i juz have to apply wad i learn from the camp to my real life..this can be one gd opportunity for me to achieve that goal.."Beneath evey pile of sand, lies sth deep down..it's up to us to uncover it..that's how treasures are founded " Azhar!
_______ life is our stage.
